Download Tamil Mp3 Songs : Love Failure
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Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Download Tamil Mp3 Songs : Old Sad Songs
Download Tamil Mp3 Songs : Old Sad Songs
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PB.Srinivas Hits
PB.Srinivas Hits
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Roja Malare Download
Yar Yar Yar Aval Download
Aandondru Poonal Download
Azakiya Mithilai Download
Chithirame Download
Entha Paruvathin Download
Hello Mr Jamindar [Hello Mr Jamindar] Download
Inbam Pongum Download
Iravu Mudinthu Vidum Download
Kanni Vanduma Download
Kathiruntha Kankale Download
Katru Veliyidai Download
Madura Nagaril Download
Nalam Nalam Download
Nee Pogum Idamellam Download
Odivathu Download
Padatha Pattallam Download
Poga Poga Download
Poojaiku Vantha Download
Radha Enthan Parvayil Download
s Sirkali Govintharajan Hits [Right Click - > Save Target As -> Download] 01Nittham nittham-Bandha Paasam Download 02Yenginrutho Vanthan-Padikkadha Maedhai Download 03Ore one ondru-Magane kael Download 04Devan koil mamiyosai- Maniyosai Download 05Kandathai kaettathal-Kongu naattu thangam Download 06Aandavan oruvan-Nallavan vaazhvan Download 07Inbam engae- Manamulla marutharam Download 08Kallellae kalai vannam-Kumudham Download 09Vaana meethil-Gomathiyin kanavan Download 10 Manidhan yellam-Azhagu nilaa Download 11 Sirippavar sila paer-Sabash maappilai Download 12 Oadam nadhiyinilae-Kaatthirundha kangal Download 13Manithan pirakkumpothu-Chakravarthi thirumagal Download 14 Panam pandhiyilae-Panam pandhiyilae Download 15 Iyarkai annai-Enga veettu penn Download 16 Aadi adangum vaazhkaiada-Neer kumizhi Download 17 Manidharai manidhar-Irumbu thirai Download 18 Ullatthil nalla ullam-Karnan Download 19 Bagavaane mounam-Rambaiyin kaadhal Download 20 Koattaiyilae oru aala maram- Muradan muthu Download 21Samarasam ulaavum nilavae-Rambaiyin kaadhal Download 22 Oddi vilaiyaadu pappaa-Kappalottiya tamizhan Download
Sirkali Govintharajan Hits
Sirkali Govintharajan Hits
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Sirkali Govintharajan Hits
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| 01Nittham nittham-Bandha Paasam | Download |
| 02Yenginrutho Vanthan-Padikkadha Maedhai | Download |
| 03Ore one ondru-Magane kael | Download |
| 04Devan koil mamiyosai- Maniyosai | Download |
| 05Kandathai kaettathal-Kongu naattu thangam | Download |
| 06Aandavan oruvan-Nallavan vaazhvan | Download |
| 07Inbam engae- Manamulla marutharam | Download |
| 08Kallellae kalai vannam-Kumudham | Download |
| 09Vaana meethil-Gomathiyin kanavan | Download |
| 10 Manidhan yellam-Azhagu nilaa | Download |
| 11 Sirippavar sila paer-Sabash maappilai | Download |
| 12 Oadam nadhiyinilae-Kaatthirundha kangal | Download |
| 13Manithan pirakkumpothu-Chakravarthi thirumagal | Download |
| 14 Panam pandhiyilae-Panam pandhiyilae | Download |
| 15 Iyarkai annai-Enga veettu penn | Download |
| 16 Aadi adangum vaazhkaiada-Neer kumizhi | Download |
| 17 Manidharai manidhar-Irumbu thirai | Download |
| 18 Ullatthil nalla ullam-Karnan | Download |
| 19 Bagavaane mounam-Rambaiyin kaadhal | Download |
| 20 Koattaiyilae oru aala maram- Muradan muthu | Download |
| 21Samarasam ulaavum nilavae-Rambaiyin kaadhal | Download |
| 22 Oddi vilaiyaadu pappaa-Kappalottiya tamizhan | Download |
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
விட்டுக்கொடுங்கள் குடும்பத்தில் ஒற்றுமை தழைக்கும்!
Friday, March 16, 2012
For increasing blog traffic, you should be focusing on many different strategies, here are: 1. Write More Content This is the most obvious one; just write more content. Many bloggers argue over how often you should be posting. The truth is there’s no right number. Some popular blogs post every day while others once a month. “But I thought the more you post, the more traffic you’ll get?” Nope, that lie has been floating around the blogosphere for years. There is some truth in it though. The fact is that it all depends on your marketing. If you’re targeting keywords and doing SEO then yes – the more you post the more traffic you’ll get. However if you’re relying on social media and your tribe to share your posts, posting every day might not be a good idea. In that case, your tribe (followers) should wait a while before they get their hands on your precious content. As if you want lots of social sharing, your content needs to be excellent and you need to keep your subscribers waiting eagerly for more. The more you make them wait for your stuff the more likely they are to read it and share. On the other end, if you’re posting every day your content will be “standard” and won’t get many shares, BUT – it will get search engine traffic. So if you want to quickly grow your blog and get a crap load of traffic – start posting daily & target keywords! 2. Do Keyword Research While Writing A great thing about SEO is that you can rank for lots of differnet search terms by simply mentioning them in your blog posts. Before you begin writing a new blog post, you absolutely must find a keyword to target. Use the Google Keyword tool and find 1 main keyword to craft your blog post around. Targeting a main keyword and eventually ranking for it will ensure long term search engine traffic (just as long as you optimize your content + build backlinks). On top of your main keyword, you should be constantly doing keyword research whilst writing so you can find other related keywords to incorporate into your blog post. When you incorporate lots of long tail keywords (more than 3 word keywords that are usually low competition) you increase your chances of ranking high on Google for them and receiving more search engine traffic. 3. Make Your Posts SEO Friendly Just make your posts more SEO friendly. This means incorporating your keyword/s into your post title, description and header tags. Also using image alt tags and making sure your keyword density is above 3%. 4. Always Reference Your Blog Posts And Posts Of Others This is a no brainer when it comes to increasing blog traffic. So simple, just link to your other blog posts throughout your posts and reference posts of other blogs. By linking to your own posts internally, you’re going to increase your avg. page views/visit and by linking to other people’s stuff you usually get a thank you link back. Even if you don’t, you might get a nice email from them, a blog comment (all the time) or develop a new relationship that helps you in the long run. 5. Guest Post To be very honest with you I’m starting to get sick of teaching this one. Guest blogging is one of the most powerful ways if not the most powerful for increasing blog traffic. You simply find other blogs in your niche and guest post for them. Many popular blogs will have pages that say “guest post” or “write for us”. The key is to write great content and only ever write for the top blogs in your niche. When guest blogging, you can’t immediately start writing for the biggest blogs in your ncihe. You have to start with the less established blogs and work your way up to the top. You’re generally allowed an author resource box with a few links back to your blog (this is where you get a free backlink and steal lots of traffic). 6. Comment On Other Blogs Blog commenting is a stupid simple strategy, no explanation is needed. Start commenting on the posts of the most popular blog’s in your niche. 7. Use Your RSS Feed And Promote It Most blogs don’t pay attention to their RSS feed, instead they focus on their frigging email list. I always say build your list first, then get your subs hooked on your RSS feed and following you on your favorite social network. Using Feedburner (a free service provided by Google) you can quickly setup an RSS feed for your blog. They are really simple. When subscribed to a blog’s RSS feed, you get instantly notified about their new blog posts. So it’s just another channel to leverage to drive more traffic to your new blog posts. You can enable email subscriptions in Feedburner so your subscribers will receive instant email notifications about your new posts. Why? The more times someone sees or hears about your blog post, the more likely they are to check it out. If you’ve got an opt-in email list you mail about your new posts, your subscribers might check it out. However, if they’re subscribed to your email list, RSS feed and are following you on both Facebook + Google Plus. They’re going to be 5 times more likely to read your post. 8. Target Sharing Audiences The more times your blog content gets shared, the more traffic it will receive. The trouble is most readers just won’t bother sharing your stuff. Solution? Target sharing audiences. When someone told me this, I thought how the heck am I going to attract the people who are most likely to share? Then it hit me… Find the people who are already sharing, the best way of doing this is by finding communities. Many popular blogs have their own communities. Little communities of people who read, like and share all of their blog posts. So how do you get your blog in front of these communities? Blog commenting, guest posting and participating in forums! In Prosperity,
1. Write More Content
This is the most obvious one; just write more content. Many bloggers argue over how often you should be posting. The truth is there’s no right number. Some popular blogs post every day while others once a month.
“But I thought the more you post, the more traffic you’ll get?”
Nope, that lie has been floating around the blogosphere for years. There is some truth in it though. The fact is that it all depends on your marketing. If you’re targeting keywords and doing SEO then yes – the more you post the more traffic you’ll get.
However if you’re relying on social media and your tribe to share your posts, posting every day might not be a good idea. In that case, your tribe (followers) should wait a while before they get their hands on your precious content.
As if you want lots of social sharing, your content needs to be excellent and you need to keep your subscribers waiting eagerly for more. The more you make them wait for your stuff the more likely they are to read it and share.
On the other end, if you’re posting every day your content will be “standard” and won’t get many shares, BUT – it will get search engine traffic. So if you want to quickly grow your blog and get a crap load of traffic – start posting daily & target keywords!
2. Do Keyword Research While Writing
A great thing about SEO is that you can rank for lots of differnet search terms by simply mentioning them in your blog posts. Before you begin writing a new blog post, you absolutely must find a keyword to target. Use the Google Keyword tool and find 1 main keyword to craft your blog post around.
Targeting a main keyword and eventually ranking for it will ensure long term search engine traffic (just as long as you optimize your content + build backlinks). On top of your main keyword, you should be constantly doing keyword research whilst writing so you can find other related keywords to incorporate into your blog post.
When you incorporate lots of long tail keywords (more than 3 word keywords that are usually low competition) you increase your chances of ranking high on Google for them and receiving more search engine traffic.
3. Make Your Posts SEO Friendly
Just make your posts more SEO friendly. This means incorporating your keyword/s into your post title, description and header tags. Also using image alt tags and making sure your keyword density is above 3%.
4. Always Reference Your Blog Posts And Posts Of Others
This is a no brainer when it comes to increasing blog traffic. So simple, just link to your other blog posts throughout your posts and reference posts of other blogs. By linking to your own posts internally, you’re going to increase your avg. page views/visit and by linking to other people’s stuff you usually get a thank you link back.
Even if you don’t, you might get a nice email from them, a blog comment (all the time) or develop a new relationship that helps you in the long run.
5. Guest Post
To be very honest with you I’m starting to get sick of teaching this one. Guest blogging is one of the most powerful ways if not the most powerful for increasing blog traffic. You simply find other blogs in your niche and guest post for them. Many popular blogs will have pages that say “guest post” or “write for us”.
The key is to write great content and only ever write for the top blogs in your niche. When guest blogging, you can’t immediately start writing for the biggest blogs in your ncihe. You have to start with the less established blogs and work your way up to the top.
You’re generally allowed an author resource box with a few links back to your blog (this is where you get a free backlink and steal lots of traffic).
6. Comment On Other Blogs
Blog commenting is a stupid simple strategy, no explanation is needed. Start commenting on the posts of the most popular blog’s in your niche.
7. Use Your RSS Feed And Promote It
Most blogs don’t pay attention to their RSS feed, instead they focus on their frigging email list. I always say build your list first, then get your subs hooked on your RSS feed and following you on your favorite social network.
Using Feedburner (a free service provided by Google) you can quickly setup an RSS feed for your blog. They are really simple. When subscribed to a blog’s RSS feed, you get instantly notified about their new blog posts.
So it’s just another channel to leverage to drive more traffic to your new blog posts. You can enable email subscriptions in Feedburner so your subscribers will receive instant email notifications about your new posts.
Why? The more times someone sees or hears about your blog post, the more likely they are to check it out. If you’ve got an opt-in email list you mail about your new posts, your subscribers might check it out.
However, if they’re subscribed to your email list, RSS feed and are following you on both Facebook + Google Plus. They’re going to be 5 times more likely to read your post.
8. Target Sharing Audiences
The more times your blog content gets shared, the more traffic it will receive. The trouble is most readers just won’t bother sharing your stuff. Solution?
Target sharing audiences. When someone told me this, I thought how the heck am I going to attract the people who are most likely to share? Then it hit me…
Find the people who are already sharing, the best way of doing this is by finding communities. Many popular blogs have their own communities. Little communities of people who read, like and share all of their blog posts.
So how do you get your blog in front of these communities? Blog commenting, guest posting and participating in forums!
In Prosperity,
Before a Romantic Kiss 1Get your lips in proper kissing order. The most kissable lips are smooth and sweet, not dry, chapped and tense. The guidelines in How to Get Kissable Lips will help both men and women make their lips look more attractive and inviting. Here are the basics: Exfoliate your lips to make them soft. You never want your lips hard or chapped and dry. Moisturize your lips to keep them soft. Relax your lips by parting them ever so slightly. 2Look inviting and approachable. You might not realize it when you send a "leave me alone" message, so read up on How to Look Approachable. Uncross your arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language - is this person into you? Or does this person seem uncomfortable? 3 a fish kiss.Break the "touch barrier." Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. (Guys, you may want to read How to Touch a Girl for more ideas on how to break the touch barrier without overstepping boundaries. Girls, you may want to read How to Touch a Guy for advice.) If everything is going well, try kissing the person on the cheek. If you find your lips near their ear (like if you're hugging someone from behind, or whispering something to them) go in for a gentle kiss on the cheek and see how they respond. Please note that the touch barrier is culture dependent. In certain cultures, e.g. Islamic, breaking the touch barrier is a big taboo that can land you in serious trouble. Be very careful. 4 Look at their lips.Look at their lips. Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person's lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don't have to be really obvious about it. Many people will take the hint, especially if they've read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a person wants to kiss or be kissed. 5 KissingApproach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. The Gentle Lip Lock (Romantic Kiss) 1As your lips make contact with theirs, pucker them slightly and close your eyes. If you "overpucker" your lips will become tense, which is better for the platonic peck (described below), not for romance. 2 Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip gently, then pull away slightly.Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip gently, then pull away slightly. Put about an inch or 3 cm between you and your partner's lips. 3Open your eyes. Once your gaze meets theirs, smile a little and decide whether or not to go for another kiss. If things are going well, move on to the next step. Or if one or both of you think that's enough for today, pull away, smile, and shift your gaze elsewhere. 4Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip again, but this time part your lips so that their lip goes between yours. Apply a little bit of pressure closing your lips as you pull away. You can practice on the length of your finger to get an idea for how much pressure to apply. You can also gently pinch one of your lips between your index finger and thumb to see how it feels to have someone kiss you in this way. 5Switch to the other lip. If you were kissing their upper lip, now go to their lower lip, and vice versa. Ideally, as you kiss someone's upper lip, they're kissing your lower lip, and vice versa, and you can go on like this for quite some time, alternating with closed lip kisses. The French Kiss Main Article: How to French Kiss 1As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready. 2Slowly open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth until the tip of your tongue meets the tip of theirs. Let your tongues brush against each other briefly and gently and then pull it away, back into your own mouth. 3Close your mouth a little (not all the way) and open it again to start another kiss. This time you can push your tongue a little further into your partner's mouth, so that more of it brushes against theirs. 4 For a passionate kiss: Put your hand(s) on your partner's face, neck, or hair and hold them close.For a passionate kiss: Put your hand(s) on your partner's face, neck, or hair and hold them close. Gently suck or nibble on their lips here and there. Breathe deeply. Kiss the person like you just can't get enough of them, and like you might never get to kiss them again. 5Finish off a French kiss with a little lip locking (as described in the previous section) or continue kissing, in which case you'll want to read the tips in How to Make Out. The Platonic Kiss 1Turn your head before you lean in. If you want to kiss someone on the cheek, and that someone is at risk of misinterpreting your intentions, make it clear that you're not going for the mouth by turning your head off to the side before you lean in. 2Pucker your lips more tightly than you would for a romantic kiss. To know if you're puckering your lips correctly, kiss in the air. How loud is the kissing noise? It should be a clearly audible "pop" of your lips as you part them while sucking air in. A romantic kiss will barely make this noise because your lips are much more relaxed. 3Keep it brief. The amount of time your lips spend on the other person's cheek or lips should be limited to whatever it takes to make that kissing noise described in the previous step - nothing more. If your lips linger, it won't seem so platonic. In some settings, it might be appropriate to not make any lip to skin contact at all; read up on How to Air Kiss. The Kiss of Respect, or Worship 1 Kiss of respectBow or kneel before the other person. Look up in respect. Remain in this position during the kiss. 2Take the person's hand (usually) gently and bring it close to your lips. 3Pucker your lips more tightly than you would for a romantic kiss. To know if you're puckering your lips correctly, kiss in the air. How loud is the kissing noise? It should be a clearly audible "pop" of your lips as you part them while sucking air in. A romantic kiss will barely make this noise because your lips are much more relaxed. 4Keep it brief. The amount of time your lips spend on the other person's hand should be limited to whatever it takes to make that kissing noise described in the previous step, no more. In some settings, it might be appropriate to not make any lip to skin contact at all; read up on How to Air Kiss. Common Kissing Issues The bad kisser. So that new guy or girl in your life is just perfect. Kind, caring, fun, exciting--he or she has it all. Except... Oh, what a terrible kisser! Luckily, most bad kissers can become good kissers if you have a little patience, tact, and courage. Check out How to Deal With a Bad Kisser. Kissing someone who's much taller or shorter than you. Got a sore neck from looking up at your partner? Or are you always hunching so you can see eye to eye? Don't fret. There's a way to pull this off. Read How to Kiss Somebody Who Is a Different Height. Bad breath. This is one of the worst thing to deal with when kissing someone. Read How to Get Rid of Bad Breath. Got braces? It's not dangerous, and the odds of getting linked braces are very small, but here are a few precautions: How to Kiss With Braces Tips Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look good tonight?", or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours. Warnings Be aware that kissing (especially deep kissing) may transmit infectious viruses, such as herpes simplex or infectious mononucleosis. Be careful not to bite on the lips.
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
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ஆளுமைத்திறன் என்றால் என்ன
ஒரு மனிதன் அவனது குணநலன்களை வைத்தே அறியப்படுகிறார். அந்த குணநலன்களை வைத்தே ஒருவரின் ஆளுமை தீர்மானிக்கப்படுகிறது. ஆளுமையைத்தான் நாம் Personality என்கிறோம். ஆளுமை என்றாலே ஒரு மனிதரின் வெளிப்புறத் தோற்றம் என்ற தவறான புரிதல் பல நபர்களுக்கு இருக்கிறது. ஆளுமை என்பது ஒரு தனிமனிதனின் முழுமையான அம்சங்களை உள்ளடக்கியதே ஒழிய, அவனின் குறிப்பிட்ட தன்மைகளை மட்டுமே கொண்டதல்ல. ஒரு மனிதனின் குணநலன் சார்ந்த மதிப்பீடே ஆளுமை எனப்படும்.
ஒரு மனிதன் தனது ஆளுமையை மாற்றிக்கொள்ள முடியுமா? என்ற மாபெரும் கேள்வி இன்று பலரிடமும் உள்ளது. அந்த கேள்விக்கு, "நிச்சயம் முடியும்" என்பதுதான் பதில். தன்னைப் பற்றி செருக்கு கொள்ளாமலும், மாற்றத்தை ஏற்கும் மனப்பான்மையுடனும் இருக்கும் ஒருவர் தனது ஆளுமையை மாற்றிக்கொள்ள முடியும். ஆளுமையை மாற்றும் நோக்கமானது, சாதாரண வாழ்க்கை நிலையிலிருந்து ஒரு வெற்றிகரமான வாழ்க்கை நிலைக்கு மாறுவதே ஆகும்.
நமது வாழ்க்கையில் வரும் கஷ்டங்களும், சங்கடங்களும் உண்மையில் தாங்க முடியாதவைகளாக இருக்கலாம். ஆனால் அந்த சிரமங்கள் உங்களின் ஆளுமையை ஆதிக்கம் செலுத்துமளவிற்கு விட்டுவிடலாகாது. அப்படி நடந்துவிட்டால், உங்களின் வாழ்க்கை தோல்வியை நோக்கிச் செல்லும்.
நடத்தை, தகவல்தொடர்பு திறன், பிறருடனான உறவு, சிறப்பான வகையில் மனித உறவுகளை கையாள்தல் போன்றவை ஒரு மனிதன் தன்னை மாற்றிக் கொள்ளும் செயல்பாட்டில், முக்கியப் பங்கு வகிப்பவை. இதுபோன்ற பலவித பண்புகள் மற்றும் திறன்களை மேம்படுத்துவதுதான் ஆளுமைத்திறன் மேம்பாடு(Personality Development) எனப்படுகிறது.
நேர்மறை எண்ணத்தை எவ்வாறு மேம்படுத்தலாம்?
நேர்மறை எண்ணத்தை எவ்வாறு மேம்படுத்தலாம்?
ஒரு குறிப்பிட்ட விஷயத்தைப் பற்றி ஒரு மனிதர் எவ்வாறு உணர்கிறார், சிந்திக்கிறார், அதுதொடர்பாக அவரது நடத்தைகள் எப்படி இருக்கிறது என்பதை வைத்தே, ஒரு தனிமனிதனின் குணநலன் தீர்மானிக்கப்படுகிறது.
இந்த உலகில் பல கோடிக்கணக்கான மனிதர்கள் இருக்கையில், அவர்களில் ஏன் வெகு சிலர் மட்டுமே வெற்றியடைகிறார்கள்? என்ற கேள்விக்கு மிக எளிதான் விடையை அளிக்கலாம். வெற்றியடைபவர் நேர்மறை சிந்தனையையும், தோல்வியடைபவர் எதிர்மறை சிந்தனையையும் கொண்டுள்ளனர்.
உதாரணமாக, தாகம் கொண்ட ஒரு மனிதர், ஒரு வீட்டில் நுழைகையில் அவருக்கு பாதியளவு தண்ணீர் நிரம்பிய ஒரு தம்ளர் தரப்படுகிறது. அதைப் பார்த்ததும் அவர் திருப்தியடைந்தால், அவர் நேர்மறை எண்ணம் கொண்டவர் என்று அர்த்தம். மாறாக, அதிருப்தியடைந்தால், எதிர்மறை எண்ணம் கொண்டவர் என்று அர்த்தம். ஏனெனில், திருப்தியடைபவர், பாதியளவு தண்ணீர் நிரம்பியுள்ளதைப் பார்க்கிறார். எதிர்மறை எண்ணம் உள்ளவரோ, அந்த தம்ளர் பாதியளவு காலியாக இருப்பதைப் பார்க்கிறார். எனவே எதிர்மறை எண்ணம் உள்ளவரைவிட, நேர்மறை எண்ணம் உள்ளவர் சிறிய விஷயங்களில் அதிக திருப்தியடைகிறார்.
மேலும், சுய நம்பிக்கை, வெற்றிக்கான தெளிவான திட்டமிடுதல் போன்ற பண்புகளும் அவருக்கு இருப்பதால் அவரின் வெற்றி மிகவும் எளிதாகிறது.
"ஒருவர் தோல்வியடைந்தால் அவருக்கு ஏமாற்றம் கிடைக்கத்தான் செய்யும். அதற்கு பயந்து ஒருவர் முயற்சியே செய்யாமல் இருந்தால் அவர் பிணத்திற்கு சமம்"
என்று ஒரு பொன்மொழி உண்டு.
நாம் இந்த வகையில்தான் சிந்திக்கப் பழக வேண்டும். நீங்கள் எப்படி சிந்திக்கிறீர்களோ, அவ்வாறே உங்களின் நடத்தையும் இருக்கிறது. நேர்மறை எண்ணம் இருந்தால், சிறுசிறு தடைகள் உங்களின் லட்சியத்தை அடைவதை தடைசெய்ய முடியாது.
"நீ எங்கே இருக்கிறாய், உன்னிடம் என்ன இருக்கிறது என்பதை வைத்து உன்னால் முடிந்ததை செய்"
"உனக்கு ஒன்று பிடிக்கவில்லை எனில், அதை மாற்றிவிடு. ஒருவேளை அதை மாற்ற முடியவில்லை என்றால், உன்னை நீ மாற்றிக்கொள். அதற்காக குறை கூறிக்கொண்டு இருக்காதே"
"ஒரு உண்மை அறிவாளி என்பவர் 1% மட்டுமே உந்துதலைக் கொண்டிருப்பார். ஆனால் 99% கடும் முயற்சியைக் கொண்டிருப்பார்"
போன்றவை பிரபலமாக பொன்மொழிகள்.
* நமது லட்சியத்தை அடைய, நமது உடலும், மனமும் ஒருங்கிணைந்து இயங்குகிறது. நமது பணி மற்றும் சமூக சூழல் போன்றவை நமது எண்ணம் மற்றும் செயல்பாட்டில் முக்கியப் பங்கை வகிக்கின்றன.
* ஒரு நேர்மறை சிந்தனையாளர், தடைக் கற்களைப் படிக்கற்களாகவே நினைக்கிறார். ஒரு தோல்வியைப் பற்றி சிந்திக்கும்போது, அது எந்தளவு நம்மை காயப்படுத்தியது என்பதைப் பற்றி சிந்திக்காமல், அது எதனால் ஏற்பட்டது என்பதைப் பற்றி சிந்தித்து, அது மீண்டும் நிகழாமல் பார்த்துக்கொள்ள வேண்டும்.
* நேர்மறை எண்ணம் கொண்டவர்கள், இயற்கையாகவே அந்த எண்ணத்துடன் பிறக்கிறார்களா? அல்லது காலப்போக்கில் அந்த எண்ணத்தை வளர்த்துக் கொள்கிறார்களா? என்பது பலரின் கேள்வியாக இருக்கிறது. பொதுவாக, ஒரு மனிதனின் குணநலன் என்பது, அவரது வாழ்க்கையின் உருபெறும் காலகட்டத்தில் வடிவமைக்கப்படுகிறது. ஒரு மனிதனின் உருவாக்க காலகட்டமானது, குடும்பம், பள்ளி, சமூகம், மீடியா, தொலைக்காட்சி, அரசியல், மதம் மற்றும் கலாச்சாரப் பிண்ணனி போன்ற பல விஷயங்களை உள்ளடக்கியது மற்றும் அந்த அனைத்து அம்சங்களும் ஒரு மனிதனின் மனநிலை உருவாக்கத்தில் முக்கியப் பங்கை வகிக்கின்றன.
* எதிர்மறை எண்ணம் கொண்ட மனிதர்களுடன் வாழும்போதும், அத்தகைய கலாச்சாரத்தைப் பின்பற்றும்போதும் ஒருவரால் நேர்மறையாக சிந்திப்பது கடினம். எனவே, அத்தகைய ஒரு எதிர்மறை அம்சத்திலிருந்து விடுபடுவதைப் பற்றி நாம் சிந்திக்க வேண்டும்.
"ஒரு இயந்திரம் 50 சராசரி மனிதர்களின் வேலைகளை செய்யும். ஆனால் எந்த ஒரு இயந்திரமும், ஒரு குறிக்கோளுடைய அசாதரண மனிதனின் வேலையை செய்துவிட முடியாது"
இதுவும் ஒரு புகழ்பெற்ற பொன்மொழிதான்.
ஒரு நேர்மறை எண்ணம் கொண்ட மனிதரை எவ்வாறு கண்டுபிடிப்பது மற்றும் அவரது குணாதிசயங்கள் எவ்வாறு இருக்கும்? இது மிகவும் எளிது.
* நேர்மறை மனிதர்கள் பணிவானவர்களாகவும், அக்கறையுள்ளவர்களாகவும், நம்பிக்கை மற்றும் பொறுமை உள்ளவர்களாகவும் இருப்பார்கள். மேலும், முயற்சிசெய்ய எப்போதுமே ஆவலாக இருப்பார்கள். அந்த மனிதர்களின் எதிர்பார்ப்பு மிகவும் பெரியளவில் இருக்கும். அத்தகைய மனிதர்கள் எல்லாவித சூழல்களிலும் வரவேற்கப்படுவார்கள்.
* அத்தகைய மனிதர் எங்கு சென்றாலும், அங்கிருக்கும் சூழலையே மாற்றி விடுவார். நடந்துவிட்ட துன்பங்களை இறந்த காலமாக கருதி, சிறப்பான எதிர்காலத்தைப் பற்றி சிந்திப்பவர்களாக இருப்பார்கள்.
* ஒரு மனிதர் நேர்மறை எண்ணமுள்ளவராக மாறுவதில் ஏராளமான அனுகூலங்கள் உள்ளன. இதன்மூலம், உற்பத்தி அதிகரிக்கும், குழுமுயற்சி ஊக்குவிக்கப்படும், பணி செய்யும் சூழல் மேம்படும், பணியின் தரம் அதிகரிக்கப்படும் மற்றும் மனித உறவுகள் மேம்படும், மன அழுத்தத்தைக் குறைக்க உதவும், நம்பிக்கையை அதிகரிக்கும் மற்றும் அத்தகைய எண்ணம் உள்ள மனிதரின் தோற்றத்திலும் நல்ல மாறுதல் ஏற்பட்டு, பலரை கவரும் விதத்தில் இருக்கும்.
* நேர்மறை சிந்தனையால் மேற்கண்ட ஏராளமான நன்மைகள் ஏற்படும் அதேவேளையில், எதிர்மறை எண்ணத்தால், பகைமை சிந்தனை, ஆரோக்கிய குறைபாடு, கசப்புணர்வு மற்றும் கடும்கோபம் போன்றவை ஏற்படும். ஒரு எதிர்மறை சிந்தனையாளர் தன்னை கெடுத்துக்கொள்வது மட்டுமின்றி, தான் சார்ந்த ஒட்டுமொத்த சூழலையும் கெடுக்கிறார். அவரது வாழ்க்கையில், அனைத்துவித உறவுகளுமே நிலையற்றதாகவே இருக்கும்.
* எதிர்மறை எண்ணங்கள் இவ்வளவு ஆபத்தானவை என்று தெரிந்தபோதும், பலர் ஏன் தங்களை மாற்றிக்கொள்வதில்லை. அதற்கு காரணம், அவர்கள் தங்களின் எண்ண ஓட்டத்தில் மாற்றத்தை கொண்டுவர விரும்புவதில்லை மற்றும் அந்த மாறாத நிலையின் ஒரு பகுதியாகவே அவர்கள் இருக்கிறார்கள். மாற்றமானது, நன்மையாக இருந்தாலும், தீமையாக இருந்தாலும் அவர்கள் ஏற்றுக்கொள்ள விரும்புவதில்லை. எனவே, இத்தகைய மனிதர்கள் முதலில் தாங்கள் வாழும் சூழலுக்கேற்ப தங்களை மாற்றிக்கொள்ள முயல வேண்டும்.
* ஒருவர் மற்றவரின் மனதை வசியம் செய்து மாற்றிவிட முடியாது. ஒவ்வொருவருமே, மனதளவில், மாற்றத்திற்கான கதவை திறக்க முடியாதவாறு வாயிற்காப்போனாக நிற்கிறோம். எனவே ஒருவர் மனதை விவாதம் செய்தோ அல்லது உணர்ச்சி வகையிலோ மாற்றிவிட முடியாது. அந்த முயற்சியானது ஒவ்வொருவரின் உள்மனதிலிருந்து தொடங்க வேண்டும்.
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NEW DELHI: Prime Minister Manmohan Singh's assets exceed Rs 5 crore including term deposits, two houses and a 1996 make Maruti 800 car as per his declaration made public today.
Out of 77 members of his Council of Ministers, assets of five of his coleagues were not available on the PM's website. These include his cabinet coleague Vilasrao Deshmukh, Ministers of State with Independent Charge Krishna Tirath and Jayanthi Natarajan and Ministers of State Jitender Singh and S Jagathrakshakan.
Finance Minister Pranab Mukherjee has assets worth Rs 1.25 crore including a flat each in Munirka in the capital and Kolkata.
His moveable properties include a Ford Ikon car of 2000 make and savings accounts.
Corporate Affairs Minister M Veerappa Moily has perhaps the most modest assets among Cabinet Ministers with no moveable property and cash in hand and bank accounts worth over Rs 13.33 lakh.
As for the PM's declaration, he has no agricultural or non-agricultural land. He has residential house in Chandigarh with current market value of Rs 90 lakh.
Singh also has a flat in Delhi's posh Vasant Kunj area with the current market value of Rs 88.67 lakh.
The PM's wife Gursharan Kaur has over Rs 11 lakh in saving account in State Bank of Patiala Chandigarh.
He also has term and bank deposits in various banks totalling around Rs 3.22 crore.
Home Minister P Chidambaram along with his wife have assets to the tune of Rs 23.67 crore, with Chidambaram alone owning assets of Rs 11.14 crore which include fixed deposits and interest thereof to the tune of Rs 1.29 crore in various banks.
Among the immovable assets owned by him include a coffee estate in Kodagu worth Rs 28.95 lakh, besides other assets worth Rs 62.26 lakh which includes a Skoda car worth Rs 22.15 lakh, a Volkswagen car worth 16.24 lakh and a Ford Fiesta car worth Rs 7.71 lakh. He also owns a cycle worth Rs 1,239 and a Kinetic Honda worth Rs 27,685.
His wife Nalini Chidambaram, however, owns land and buildings in Managiri, Sukkanenthal village worth Rs 2.66 crore and agricultural land in Muttucaud/Kanathur worth Rs 27.41 lakh and a house in Karaikudi worth Rs 12.68 lakh. She also owns a coffee estate worth Rs 1.18 crore, a house in Sivagangai worth Rs 12 lakh and land in Managiri worth Rs 11.2 lakh.
While Chidamabaram himself possesses jewellery worth only Rs 65,955, his wife possesses it worth Rs 7.75 lakh.
Defence Minister A K Antony has total assets worth Rs 39.15 lakh jointly owned with his wife. Antony himself does not own any house or property or even a vehicle and has saving fund deposits worth only Rs 1.82 lakh.
Power Minister Sushil Kumar Shinde has assets worth Rs 7.75 crore, while his wife owns assets of over Rs 4.5 crore. Shinde owns a house in Solapur worth Rs 50 lakh, a flat in Bandra in Mumbai worth Rs 1.99 crore, a flat in Munirka Vihar, New Delhi worth Rs 1.25 crore and a farm house in Solapur worth Rs 19.76 lakh.
External Affairs Minister S M Krishna is worth Rs 1.76 crore, with fixed assets worth Rs 56.16 lakh. His wife owns assets worth Rs 1.10 crore.
Out of 77 members of his Council of Ministers, assets of five of his coleagues were not available on the PM's website. These include his cabinet coleague Vilasrao Deshmukh, Ministers of State with Independent Charge Krishna Tirath and Jayanthi Natarajan and Ministers of State Jitender Singh and S Jagathrakshakan.
Finance Minister Pranab Mukherjee has assets worth Rs 1.25 crore including a flat each in Munirka in the capital and Kolkata.
His moveable properties include a Ford Ikon car of 2000 make and savings accounts.
Corporate Affairs Minister M Veerappa Moily has perhaps the most modest assets among Cabinet Ministers with no moveable property and cash in hand and bank accounts worth over Rs 13.33 lakh.
As for the PM's declaration, he has no agricultural or non-agricultural land. He has residential house in Chandigarh with current market value of Rs 90 lakh.
Singh also has a flat in Delhi's posh Vasant Kunj area with the current market value of Rs 88.67 lakh.
The PM's wife Gursharan Kaur has over Rs 11 lakh in saving account in State Bank of Patiala Chandigarh.
He also has term and bank deposits in various banks totalling around Rs 3.22 crore.
Home Minister P Chidambaram along with his wife have assets to the tune of Rs 23.67 crore, with Chidambaram alone owning assets of Rs 11.14 crore which include fixed deposits and interest thereof to the tune of Rs 1.29 crore in various banks.
Among the immovable assets owned by him include a coffee estate in Kodagu worth Rs 28.95 lakh, besides other assets worth Rs 62.26 lakh which includes a Skoda car worth Rs 22.15 lakh, a Volkswagen car worth 16.24 lakh and a Ford Fiesta car worth Rs 7.71 lakh. He also owns a cycle worth Rs 1,239 and a Kinetic Honda worth Rs 27,685.
His wife Nalini Chidambaram, however, owns land and buildings in Managiri, Sukkanenthal village worth Rs 2.66 crore and agricultural land in Muttucaud/Kanathur worth Rs 27.41 lakh and a house in Karaikudi worth Rs 12.68 lakh. She also owns a coffee estate worth Rs 1.18 crore, a house in Sivagangai worth Rs 12 lakh and land in Managiri worth Rs 11.2 lakh.
While Chidamabaram himself possesses jewellery worth only Rs 65,955, his wife possesses it worth Rs 7.75 lakh.
Defence Minister A K Antony has total assets worth Rs 39.15 lakh jointly owned with his wife. Antony himself does not own any house or property or even a vehicle and has saving fund deposits worth only Rs 1.82 lakh.
Power Minister Sushil Kumar Shinde has assets worth Rs 7.75 crore, while his wife owns assets of over Rs 4.5 crore. Shinde owns a house in Solapur worth Rs 50 lakh, a flat in Bandra in Mumbai worth Rs 1.99 crore, a flat in Munirka Vihar, New Delhi worth Rs 1.25 crore and a farm house in Solapur worth Rs 19.76 lakh.
External Affairs Minister S M Krishna is worth Rs 1.76 crore, with fixed assets worth Rs 56.16 lakh. His wife owns assets worth Rs 1.10 crore.
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