A GIRLS The Game of Love and Missing someone..

I know not..

I have experienced the love that I feel for my parents.. for my sister..

I feel affection and care for and towards my friends.. but when it comes to romantic love i fail to understand/measure/feel its depth.

I do not mean that its not deep, its just that I donno how deep.. how long lasting..

people say romantic love is nothing but a temporary stage of hormonal changes in one’s body.. but is love only about the quantity of adrenaline, dopamine, fenylethylamine, endorphin and oxytocin in our body? or is it something more, deeper? more permanent? eternal?

How does one distinguish between love, affection, infatuation or attraction?

How does one decide if what appears as love at a particular moment is really love and that the feeling will remain same always for that person?

I can find no answers… probably no one can.. everyone can only have their own assumptions and live their lives based on them calling them their philosophy.

And Why Not!

If these questions had one universal answer, the world would not be an interesting mystic place like it is now!

Things will become more predictable, the exploratory fun will be absent, there will be no pain.. since people will not commit mistakes out of ignorance.

And in absence of pain there will be no realization of happiness…

Life is beautiful the way it is.. it opens a new chapter each day, where you feel you know whats going to come on the next page but not always you get to read the same what you expected..

Life looks like a game of putting efforts to increase probability of the events you want to happen in future.. nothing is certain, it cannot be, future always remain out of control and unpredictable, but we do make attempt to control it, and if not a full control we are able to shape it and direct it in someway to what we want.

Love is difficult to understand.

When we love someone, we ‘miss’ them infinitely without reason. Apart from love, whenever we miss something, we know the reason why we are missing it, we know what will happen if we find that thing. But if its just love, we miss without any reason, when we find the person, we know not what to do, because there was nothing we were actually missing that person for.

So is this kind of “Missing..” love?

Is this permanent?

Can you have same feeling for more than one person?

Studies say, it is possible to have that feeling for more than one person but not all at a time..

Its confusing to answer a question like: “Do you REALLY love me?”

A person might love someone, but does s/she “really” is in love.. no one knows.. even that person may not know..

So what should be done? How do you know for yourself as well as for the person you love, that are you two really in love?

May be these questions are impossible to answer.. so just live in the moment, enjoy reading each page of life as it opens.. Just swing and sing in the beautiful feeling of love without questioning it..